How to Manifest Someone Away From You and Out of Your Life for Good
Have you ever wished you could get rid of someone who is making your life miserable? Maybe it’s a toxic ex, a nagging boss, a rude neighbor, or a fake friend. You know they are not good for you, but you can’t seem to shake them off. Did you know that you can use the law of attraction and the power of your mind to remove someone from your life You can use the same principles that help you attract what you want to repel what you don’t want. And I’m going to show you how. Follow this comprehensive guide to discover the exact tactics I used to manifest away my noisy neighbor who used to blast music at 3 a.m. almost every night. Trust me, it works. Ready to learn how to manifest someone away? Let’s go!
Steps to Manifest Someone Away From You
How to manifest someone to go away from your life in 5 simple steps:
| Step | Description | |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Clarity and Determination | Write down the person and the reasons why you want them out of your life. |
| 2 | Forgive and Let Go | See the person as a teacher and a catalyst. Thank them for the opportunity to heal and improve yourself. |
| 3 | Visualize Your Life Without This Person | Imagine your life without this person. What does it look like? How does it feel like? |
| 4 | Feel What It’s Like Without This Person in Your Life | Invoke the positive emotions you would feel without this person and make them a part of your day-to-day life. |
| 5 | Focus on Yourself | Focus on the positive and the things that make you happy. Do more of what brings you joy and fulfillment. |
Clarity and Determination
The first step to manifest someone away from you is to clarify why you want to get rid of them.
Identify the person you want to manifest out of your life and the reasons why. Write down the qualities or behaviors that bother you. Be honest and specific. For example, they may be disrespectful, dishonest, manipulative, abusive, or negative. Don’t hold back. Let it all out.
The benefits of doing this step:
- You will clear your mind and release some of the pent-up emotions.
- Understand what you don’t want in your life and what you need to change.
- Gain clarity and determination.
- Solidify the intention to manifest this person out of your life.
In case you have more than one person in mind, I suggest you focus on one at a time.
Forgive and Let Go
Forgive the other person and let them go.
To do this, you need to realize that you are not a victim of circumstance but a creator of your reality.
You attracted this person into your life for a reason.
They are reflecting something back to you. Maybe they are showing you some of your own subconscious fears, insecurities, or beliefs. Perhaps they are triggering some of your unresolved issues or traumas from your past. Whatever the case, there is a lesson and a gift in every situation.
Instead of blaming or resenting this person, try to see them as a teacher and a catalyst. Thank them for the opportunity to heal and improve yourself.
The benefits of this are:
- It will help you shift your perspective
- Release negative energy, thoughts, and emotions
- Raise your vibration,
- Make it easier to forgive them and let them go.
Visualize Your Life Without This Person
Visualize what it will look like when this person is out of your life.
Close your eyes and imagine your life without this person.
What does it look like?
How does it feel like?
How are you spending your time?
Imagine the outcome as if it has already happened. Make it as vivid and realistic as possible.
What are the benefits of this step? You will:
- Create a mental blueprint for your future
- Align yourself with your desire
- Activate the law of attraction
Feel What It’s Like Without This Person in Your Life
Imagine how you would feel without this person and invoke these feelings in you.
How would you feel if this person was not around?
Feel how pleasing that feels. Embody these positive emotions you are feeling in the visualization and make them a part of your day-to-day life. Carry this positivity with you throughout the day.
Benefits:
- It helps you program your subconscious mind
- You will attract people who match your vibration.
- It feels good.
Focus on Yourself
Focus on the positive aspects of your life and the things that make you happy.
Don’t let this person occupy your mind or affect your mood. Instead, focus on the positive aspects of your life.
What are you passionate about?
What are your hobbies, goals, or dreams?
What are you grateful for?
Do more of what brings you joy and fulfillment. Also, surround yourself with positive people who love you and respect you.
Benefits:
- You will fill your life with joy and gratitude.
- It helps you boost your confidence
- You will attract fulfilling and healthy relationships.
Can You Really Manifest Someone Out of Your Life?
Yes, you can really manifest someone away from your life. Whatever you focus on, you attract more of. So, if you focus on the person you want to get rid of, you’ll only attract more of them. But, if you focus on your happiness, you’ll attract people that match that new vibration.
I will explain it in detail next.
How Does the Law of Attraction Principle Work?
The law of attraction is a universal law that states that like attracts like.
This means that whatever you think, feel, and do, you attract more of the same into your life.
Your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors create a vibration that matches the vibration of the things or people you want or don’t want.
The universe responds to your energy by sending you more of what you are in harmony with.
The Law of Attraction Works Both Ways
You can use it to attract what you want or to repel what you don’t want.
The key is to focus on the desired outcome, not the undesired one.
For instance, if you want to manifest someone out of your life, don’t focus on how much you hate them, how annoying they are, or how much they hurt you. That will only attract more of their presence and influence in your life.
Instead, focus on how much you love yourself, what makes you happy, or how much you enjoy being with others. That will attract more people and situations that make you feel good and support your well-being.
It’s simple: positive energy attracts more positive energy.
If you remember this, you can use the law of attraction to manifest what you want, regardless of your current situation.
The law of attraction is not a magic trick or a quick fix. It is a way of living and being that requires consistent practice and persistence.
Subconscious Mind
The subconscious mind is the part of your mind that stores your beliefs, memories, habits, and emotions.
The subconscious is very powerful, but it can also be very stubborn. It can hold on to limiting beliefs or negative emotions that prevent you from manifesting someone out of your life. For example, you may have a subconscious belief that you are not worthy of love or a subconscious fear of being alone.
These blocks can sabotage your manifestation and keep you stuck with the person you want to get rid of. To overcome these blocks, you need to reprogram your subconscious beliefs. You can use positive affirmations, visualizations, vision boards, scripting, or meditations to do that
Check out this blog post, too:
How to Overcome Limiting Beliefs With the Law of Assumption and Manifest Your Dreams
How to Manifest Someone Away From You: Success Story
Remember how I mentioned my neighbor in the introduction?
Let me tell you the whole story.
My former neighbor had a habit of playing loud music at night and throwing frequent parties. It was tolerable at first, but the situation worsened during the 2020 lockdown. He would blast his music at all hours of the day and night, invite his friends over for drinking, and leave trash and cigarette ends in the hallway. Some neighbors tried to approach him about it. He would slam the door in their faces, talk back at them, or ignore them completely. Even the police intervened on one occasion.
The other two neighbors who lived in the same building decided to move out due to the escalating conflict. They couldn’t stand his behavior anymore and didn’t feel safe or comfortable in their homes. After the second neighbor, who lived alone across from me, moved out, I decided to manifest him out of my life.
This Is How I Did It
I forgave my neighbor for his misbehavior and released all negative energy, thoughts, and feelings about the situation. I imagined a peaceful and quiet home and a clean and fresh hallway in my building (instead of the smell of cigarette smoke). Most importantly, I felt the emotions of my visualization, which brought me a sense of relief and calmness.
I was living in the end result, even though my neighbor was still around and we had frequent encounters. However, this wasn’t bothering me anymore.
Then, my husband and I went on vacation for 2 weeks, and by the time we came back, he had moved out. I never seen him since.
It took 2 and a half months since I first visualized my life without his interference, to the point that he moved out.
As you can see, this is a shorter version of the 5-step process described here. However, I never had an intense relationship with my neighbor, so I didn’t need to be thorough about it.
Positive Affirmations for Removing Someone From Your Life
Here are some positive affirmations you can use to speed up your manifestation:
- I am the master of my destiny, and I choose who I want in my life.
- I am embarking on a new phase of my life, free from the negative influence of toxic people.
- I’m grateful to be shedding old skin and blossoming fully away from [person’s name].
- I respect myself for having the courage to walk away.
- I feel empowered knowing I put my well-being first.
- I’m proud that I honor my worth by surrounding myself only with those who add value.
- My life is lighter without the toxicity of old relationships dragging me down.
- I feel free to spread my wings and soar higher without the negativity of past ties.
- I’m bettering myself each day without the need for approval.
- I chose to focus on positive thoughts and experiences.
- I’m nurturing positive growth by pruning away anyone stunting my happiness.
- Distancing myself from toxicity strengthened my resolve to only accept healthy bonds.
- My boundaries are creating space for uplifting people to share my journey.
- I feel proud that I have the strength and self-respect to focus on myself without distraction.
You can use these as they are or as inspiration for your own affirmations.
Affirmations are a proven way to reprogram your subconscious beliefs. Repeat them several times a day, preferably in the morning and at night. You can also write them down and stick them somewhere you can see them often.
How to Manifest Someone Away From You: Additional Tips
Create Physical or Time Distance From This Person
Sometimes, it might be difficult to let go of someone. But it’s important to act in alignment with your intention. You can’t expect to get rid of someone if you keep engaging with them or allowing them to invade your space. You need to create some distance and separation, either physically or mentally.
So, take inspired action to create physical or time distance from this person. Avoid contacting them, unfollow them on social media, or limit your interactions with them. If you have to see them, be polite but distant. By doing this, you will cut the ties that bind you and establish healthy boundaries.
Be Grateful for the Lessons You Learned From Them
Understand how you attracted this person into your life and what lessons they are teaching you. Reflect on how this person mirrors some aspects of yourself or your past. Acknowledge and appreciate the growth opportunities they provide. This can help you forgive and heal faster.
Trust the Manifestation Process
Trust the universe (or any higher power you believe in) to handle the details. Release any attachment, expectation, or control over the outcome. Have faith that everything will work out for your highest good and the highest good of all involved. This will help you surrender and detach. And subsequently, get rid of the specific person from your life faster.
How to Manifest Someone Away From You: Conclusion
Now you know all the steps necessary to manifest this person completely out of your life.
You can free yourself from unwanted people and create more space for yourself.
Manifesting someone out of your life is easier than you think!
Now, it’s your turn.
Try this manifestation method and see the results for yourself.
Share your experiences in the comments below: Have you ever tried to manifest someone out of your life? How did it go?
Let me know in the comments.
November 21, 2025 @ 9:22 am
Hola Bree, gracias por compartirnos tu experiencia la ley de la atracción.
Tengo una pregunta para ti.
Esto también funciona para manifestar a una pareja actual, con la que vivo y tengo un hijo, fuera de nuestra vida para siempre? Nos hace mucho daño
¿Cómo puedo manifestar deshacerme de esta persona y que nos deje en paz a mí y a mi hijo, para siempre?
Gracias.
November 22, 2025 @ 3:34 pm
Hi Moni,
Thank you for your message and for reading the article. To answer your question directly: Yes, you can manifest this person out of your life permanently. But I need to be very clear with you about something important I wrote in that same article: “You can’t expect to get rid of someone if you keep engaging with them or allowing them to invade your space. You need to create distance and separation, either physically or mentally.” In your case, where you mention he hurts you and your child, physical distance is not optional – it’s necessary. Every moment you tolerate the behavior of someone who harms you keeps you in the same reality. Manifestation works, but you must act in alignment with your intention.
This means you need to:
Take practical action – Seek legal support, protection resources, or plan how to create that physical distance safely
Simultaneous inner work – Use manifestation to strengthen your resolve and create your new reality.
Take care of yourself and your child. You deserve peace.
November 26, 2025 @ 1:13 am
Muchas gracias por tus palabras Bre.
Pero actualmente no me puedo separar físicamente del padre de mi hijo porque me amenaza con inventarme cosas y así quitarme para siempre a mi hijo.
Quiero asesorarme primero Legalmente y psicológicamente para poder irme sin miedo.
Pero me preguntaba si podía seguir la misma estrategia que seguiste sobre el hombre de las fiestas.
Aunque él seguía cerca de ti en su apartamento, tú seguiste cerca de él, sin embargo empezaste a manifestar cosas que poco a poco te fueron llevando a que se fuera para siempre.
Crees que eso me ayude a mí?
El ir haciendo acciones que me permitan manifestar que se vaya yendo para siempre de nuestras vidas?
Muchas gracias Bre.
November 26, 2025 @ 11:12 am
Hi, Moni. I understand your situation, and I’m glad you’re seeking legal and psychological advice. That’s very smart. To answer your question: Yes, you can use the same strategy I used with my neighbor. The 5 steps from the blog work even when you’re still physically near the person. The key difference in my case: My relationship with that neighbor was never intense. He bothered me with music and cigarette smoke, but I wasn’t afraid of him. He never directly threatened me. That’s why I could easily maintain an internal state of peace while manifesting him out of my life. In your situation, that’s probably going to be harder.
My recommendation: Continue seeking legal/psychological help. In parallel, do the inner work: Visualize your life in peace, without him, feel the relief and calm of being free, live from that internal state, even if he’s still nearby. Trust that the legal actions you take are part of your manifestation – they’re not separate things. When you seek a lawyer, when you talk to a psychologist, when you take practical steps, you’re manifesting your new reality.
Wishing you all the best with your manifestations.
January 12, 2026 @ 1:36 pm
Dear Bree,
Thank you for this amazing article. I really want to try it!
I have only 1 neighbor (a couple) who I want to manifest out of my life but they are the loudest ones I have ever met…They are around 50, but one of their daughter and grandchild are here almost everyday…
This couple triggers me in EVERYTHING. They are noisy, rude, never work, lazy, never leave their house so I always hear them (I am at home with a baby). I started to write down the behaviors that bothers me, as you suggested, and it’s almost a whole page (and I can still continue…).
They brought up a lot of my childhood traumas and nowadays traumas as well.
This will be the 7th year next to them and I feel like I can’t stand another year next to them (especially a summer when they are 0-24 loud in the garden and I want peace in my garden because I love to be out a lot as well).
What do you think can I manifest them out in this year? Any more suggestions?
Thank you very much for your help & time.
Wish you all the best,
Krisztina
January 17, 2026 @ 2:32 pm
Hi Krisztina, thank you for sharing your situation! Yes, you can absolutely manifest them out this year.
Here’s the thing: Every time you say “I can’t stand another year,” you’re manifesting another year. Every time you anticipate the loud summer, you’re creating it.
What needs to change:
Stop the negative anticipation – Change “I can’t stand another year” to “This is my last season dealing with this. Peace is coming.”
Stop monitoring their behavior – Every time you add to that mental list of complaints, you’re affirming their presence. Your job isn’t to document why they should leave – it’s to live AS IF they’re already gone.
Address the real issue – You mentioned they trigger childhood traumas. They’re mirrors showing you unhealed wounds. Until you heal those triggers, some version of this pattern will follow you.
Your action steps:
Forgive and let go (even if they don’t “deserve” it – you deserve peace).
Visualize peaceful mornings in your garden instead of anticipating noise.
Live from the end NOW – Act as if they’re already gone, even while they’re still there.
Focus on your joy – Don’t let them steal one more moment of your peace.
The shift: The moment you truly stop caring whether they stay or go – the moment you’re genuinely at peace either way – that’s when they’ll leave.
I’ve sent you a more detailed response via email with specific exercises and resources. Check your inbox!
Wishing you peace,
Bree
January 20, 2026 @ 7:12 pm
Dear Bree,
Thank you very much for your help! I believe I can do this! Your support means a lot.
Wish you all the best!
Krisztina