How to Manifest Someone to Like You, Even if You Feel Like Giving up [Specific Person]
Have you ever wished you could make someone like you back? Maybe you have a crush on someone who doesn’t seem to notice you, or you are in love with someone who doesn’t feel the same way. You may feel hopeless and frustrated, wondering if there is anything you can do to change their feelings. What if there is a way to manifest someone to like you, even if you feel like giving up?
It may sound too good to be true, but it is possible with the power of universal laws that govern how our thoughts and feelings create our reality.
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Today you’ll learn how to use these laws to attract the person you desire and make them fall for you. You’ll get a comprehensive, practical guide on how to manifest anyone you want, even if you feel like giving up. So, are you ready to manifest your specific person?
Let’s get started!
Can You Really Manifest Someone to Like You Back?
The answer is yes, you can!
As a manifestation coach, I have helped many people to attract their ideal partners and create loving relationships. And I can tell you that it is possible to manifest someone to reciprocate your feelings, even if they seem indifferent or uninterested right now.
How does it work?
It works with the help of the universal laws that govern how we create our reality. The most famous laws in the manifestation community are the law of attraction and the law of assumption.
The Law of Attraction
The law of attraction works with your vibration, which is the energy that you emit with your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. By aligning your vibrational frequency with the frequency of your desired outcome, you make it manifest in your physical reality.
It’s based on the idea that whatever you focus on, you attract.
This means that:
Whatever you think, feel, and believe about yourself and others, you create in your life.
For example, if you want to attract someone into your life, you should focus on the positive qualities of yourself and them. This will make you feel good and draw them closer to you.
The Law of Assumption
The law of assumption states that whatever you assume to be true, becomes true.
Whatever you imagine and affirm as your reality, you experience as your reality.
According to the law of assumption, if you truly assume that your crush likes you, they will. If you assume that your partner loves you and treats you well, they will reflect that back to you, regardless of your current circumstances.
The law of assumption works with your subconscious mind. That’s the part of your mind that controls your habits, beliefs, emotions, and actions. By impressing your subconscious mind with a certain idea, you make it accept it as true and act accordingly.
Should You Use the Law of Assumption or the Law of Attraction to Manifest Love?
You might be wondering: Which of these laws is better for manifesting love into your life?
The truth is, there’s no conclusive answer to this question. Both methods have their advantages, and both can work for different people and situations.
Some people like to use only the law of assumption. For them, it’s simpler and more effective. They assume they already have what they want to manifest. By living in the end result, they create a bridge that leads them to their manifestation.
Others prefer to use only the law of attraction. They see it as more fun and creative. By focusing on raising their frequency, they attract love.
Personally, I like combining these two approaches for that extra boost. And I suggest you do the same.
- Use the law of assumption to create a strong belief and expectation that you already have the love you deserve.
- And the law of attraction to align your whole being with that assumption.
These laws complement each other. So, if you use them together, you will overcome any challenges or obstacles and get what you want faster.
*Curious to know more about these differences? Read the full article about it.
If that’s clear, let’s move to the crucial part:
What are the most effective ways to manifest someone into your life?
Self-Love: The Secret Ingredient of Finding Love
Perhaps you’ve heard the saying: “You can’t love someone else until you love yourself.“
It is 100% true. Self-love is the secret ingredient to getting anyone to like you.
Why?
Because others are just mirroring your beliefs and assumptions back to you.
Let me explain.
You see, we live in a mirror reality.
This means that whatever you believe about yourself and others, you see reflected in your external world.
Suppose you believe that you are beautiful, confident, and deserving of love. In that case, you will see people who admire you, respect you, and love you.
Likewise, if you believe that you are not beautiful enough, insecure, and unworthy of love, you will see people who ignore you, reject you, and hurt you.
This is how the universal laws work. They create a feedback loop between your inner and outer world.
So, if you want to manifest someone to like you, you need to start by truly liking yourself first.
Ready to show yourself some love? Let me share with you my top 7 tips:
- Practice self-care: Take care of yourself mentally, emotionally, and physically.
- Be kind to yourself: Treat yourself with the same love, kindness, and compassion you would offer a close friend.
- Set boundaries: Establish healthy boundaries in your relationships, and don’t hesitate to say “no” when necessary.
- Practice mindfulness: Stay present in the now and focus on what you are experiencing right now.
- Learn to forgive yourself: Use your past experiences as opportunities for growth and learning.
- Prioritize your needs: Make time for yourself and schedule regular self-care practices.
- Celebrate your successes: Acknowledge and celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small.
When you do these things, you will raise your energy and align with the frequency of love. And impress your subconscious mind with the idea that you are lovable and loved. And when your subconscious mind accepts something as true, it will make it happen in your physical reality.
When you love yourself, others will love you too.
This is especially true for the person you desire. They are not separate from you.
You are connected to them through your consciousness. They are responding to your energy and assumptions.
How to Identify and Release Your Limiting Beliefs
Your thoughts are powerful. They shape your reality.
But not all thoughts are created equal. Some thoughts can be negative, disempowering, and destructive. They hinder your manifestation.
These negative thoughts are called limiting beliefs. They are based on fear, doubt, or insecurity.
Limiting beliefs can block your manifestation because they create resistance in your subconscious mind. They contradict your conscious intention.
So, if you want to manifest someone, you need to identify and release your limiting beliefs first.
Here are 2 steps to help you do that:
1) Identify your limiting beliefs.
The first step is to recognize what beliefs are holding you back from manifesting someone to fall in love with you. To do this, pay attention to your inner dialogue and emotional reactions. Whenever you catch yourself thinking or feeling something negative about yourself or the person you desire, write it down.
Make a list of your limiting beliefs.
Some examples of common limiting beliefs are:
- I am not good enough for them.
- They don’t like me back.
- They are too good for me.
- I am not attractive enough for them.
- I am not worthy of love.
- Love is hard to find.
- Love is painful.
- Love doesn’t last.
2) Reframe your limiting beliefs.
The second step is to reframe these beliefs and change your perspective on them. You can do this by finding evidence that contradicts the negative belief and supports the positive one.
Another way to tackle negative beliefs is by asking questions that challenge them. For example:
- How do I know that I am not good enough for them?
- What if they do like me back?
- What makes them too good for me?
- What makes me attractive enough for them?
- Why am I worthy of love?
- How can I find love easily?
- How can I enjoy love more?
- How can I make love last?
You can reinforce your positive beliefs with different techniques such as affirmations, visualizations, meditations, journaling, etc. We’ll go through some of them next.
How to Use Affirmations to Reinforce Your Positive State
Affirmations can be of great help in manifesting your desires. They help you create and maintain a positive state of mind and attract what you want.
5 tips for using affirmations with maximum effectiveness:
- Choose affirmations that resonate with you and make you feel good. You can make your own affirmations or use existing ones. The key is to use words that inspire and empower you.
- Use the present tense and speak in the first person. This will make them more realistic and personal. For example, instead of saying “They will like me back,” say “They like me back.”
- Be positive and specific. This will make them more clear and focused. For example, instead of saying “I am happy that I’m no longer single,” say something like: “I am happy that I’m in a loving relationship with the perfect person for me.“
- Affirm daily and consistently. The more you use them, the more they will become part of your subconscious mind and reality.
- Speak with emotion and conviction. You can say them out loud or in your mind, but make sure you feel them in your heart. The more emotion you put into them, the more powerful they will be.
Examples of powerful affirmations for manifesting the person you want:
- I am in a loving and fulfilling relationship with the person I desire.
- The person I desire is attracted to me and likes me back.
- My specific person and I are a perfect match for each other.
- We share a deep connection and understanding.
- We communicate easily and openly.
- We have so much fun and enjoy each other’s company.
- We respect and support each other.
- We are happy and committed to each other.
The key here is to feel the emotions of being with the person you want to manifest. You need to feel as if it is already happening.
How to Feel as if You Already Have What You Want?
One of the most frequent questions I get is: “But how can I feel as if I already have what I want?“
It’s simple.
Use your imagination and your emotions to transport yourself into the experience of having your desire fulfilled.
For example, you can imagine scenarios where you are with your person, doing things that make you happy. You feel the love, the joy, the excitement, the gratitude that you would feel if they were really with you.
Make it as real as possible in your mind and in your heart.
Imagine that you are doing something fun and romantic with them. It could be going on a date, cuddling on the couch, kissing, etc.
- Feel the joy and excitement of being with them.
- See how they are looking at you with love and admiration.
- Hear them say how much they like you and how happy they are with you.
- Feel their affection and appreciation for you.
You can imagine anything that makes you feel good and connected to them.
The more you do this, the more you will feel as if you already have them in your life. And the more you will attract them to you. So make it a habit to feel as if you already have what you want every day. It will make a noticeable difference in your manifestation.
How to Visualize Your Desired Outcome
Visualization works by activating your imagination and creating a mental image of what you want to experience.
When you visualize:
You are sending a signal to your subconscious mind that this is what you want. You are also creating that feeling of having it already, which attracts it into your physical reality.
5 tips on how to visualize effectively:
- Choose a time and place where you can relax and focus. The best time is just after you wake up or at night.
- Relax your body and mind. Let go of any worries or distractions.
- Imagine that you are already with the person you desire. See them in front of you or beside you. Notice their appearance, their voice, their smile. Sense their presence, their touch, their warmth. Focus on your scene.
- Stay in this state for as long as you can. Feel the positive energy, gratitude, and satisfaction of having what you want. Enjoy every moment of it. Make it as real as possible.
- Know that it is already done!
By doing this regularly, you will impress your subconscious mind with the belief that you are already with the person you desire.
How to Trust the Process and Let Go of the Outcome
Trust that the Universe, God (or however you want to call it), works in your interest. This will help you align with the flow of life and receive what you want.
I’ve got 3 pointers on how to trust the process:
- Surrender your intention to the higher power. Trust that it knows what is best for you and that it will bring you what you want in the perfect way and time.
- Detach from the outcome and focus on the present moment. Enjoy your life. Do things that make you happy. Be in the moment and trust that everything happens for a reason.
- Deal with any doubts, fears, or resistance that may arise along the way. Recognize them as normal and natural reactions of your ego mind that tries to protect you from disappointment or failure. Acknowledge them and thank them for their concern. Then, replace them with positive thoughts that support your manifestation.
How Long Does Manifestation Take to Work?
The answer is: it depends. There is no fixed time frame for manifestation. It can happen in minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, or years. It depends on the following:
- Your resistance: how much you doubt, fear, or worry about your desire. The more resistance you have, the slower you manifest.
- Your readiness: how prepared you are to receive your desire. The more ready you are, the quicker you manifest.
- Your alignment: how well you match your vibration with the vibration of your desire. The more aligned you are, the faster it will come.
So don’t worry about how long it takes. If you follow the tips from this post, you will manifest that special someone (perhaps even the love of your life) in record time!
What Should You Avoid When Trying to Manifest Someone to Like You?
Okay, now you know how to manifest the person of your dreams. But, we’re not done yet.
I want to ensure we cover every angle of this topic.
So, let’s discuss the “don’ts:”
- Don’t obsess over your person (like checking their social media constantly).
- Don’t physically force or manipulate your circumstances.
- Don’t compare yourself or your situation to others.
- Don’t be concerned about what others think or say.
- Don’t look for signs or evidence.
- Don’t be passive or avoidant (practice steps from this post instead)
Engaging in these behaviors will only make you feel anxious and insecure, so it would be best to avoid them.
Can You Manifest Someone to Be Obsessed?
Sure! You can manifest the person you want to be obsessed with you. But the real question is – do you really want to? 🤔
First, let’s break it down.
These days, it has become common to use the word “obsession” in an exaggerated way to emphasize how much you like something or someone. When used this way, it’s usually meant in a lighthearted, hyperbolic manner.
So, if that’s how you use it, then go for it! You can affirm “My SP is so obsessed with me” as much as you want.
As long as by “obsession,” you really mean a strong but normal enthusiasm, not a true unhealthy fixation or preoccupation – all is fine.
However, manifesting someone to be literally obsessed with you isn’t very wise.
Obsession is intense, all-consuming, and often unhealthy. By manifesting someone’s obsession, you’re essentially trying to force their feelings, instead of naturally evoking positive feelings in them. That can backfire big time. Here’s why:
1. It’s not genuine: Manifesting genuine love and connection is one thing, but trying to get someone obsessed with you isn’t authentic. And let’s be honest, wouldn’t you prefer someone to genuinely care for you rather than being fixated on you for all the wrong reasons?
2. It’s not healthy: Obsession can lead to unhealthy behaviors like jealousy, control, and manipulation. No one wants to be in that kind of relationship, right? A healthy, balanced relationship is built on trust, respect, and open communication.
3. Karma, baby: What goes around comes around. By trying to manifest someone’s obsession, you’re sending out negative energy into the universe. This could potentially come back to bite you, and nobody wants that!
Remember:
Creating a healthy, balanced relationship is way more fulfilling than trying to make someone obsessed with you.
Focus on self-love and techniques from this blog, and you’ll be well on your way to a loving and authentic connection.
Conclusion
Okay, we’ve covered all the essentials. You’ve learned how to manifest someone you like to reciprocate your feelings.
So, don’t let previous failures hold you back!
You have the power to smash through these patterns and find the love you desire. A little bit of self-reflection and practice can lead to amazing manifestations.
Now, let’s summarize the main steps on how to manifest someone you like:
- Practice self-love.
- Change your beliefs.
- Use affirmations to reinforce your positive state.
- Feel as if you already have what you want.
- Visualize your desired outcome.
- Trust the process and let go of the outcome.
If you practice these steps regularly, you’ll be able to:
- manifest a specific person into your life,
- open yourself up to love,
- create whatever you want in a relationship,
- and if you don’t have that special someone, the right person will come into your life in no time!
So now it’s your turn!
Start applying some of these tips today. ✨
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